The Importance of Community

This morning, as I sit here reflecting, I am struck by the word "community." It has been coming up in a lot of blogs that I've been reading lately, and it's also been a major theme of these past couple of weeks. If you take a look at my life, it's pretty atypical for someone my age. [[At least...in the area where I live.]] By that I mean, I'm in my early 20's, I'm married & don't have kids, I'm not in college, and I don't work outside of the home.

These factors have contributed to a sense of loneliness. I have had some trouble finding women who are in my shoes. Who can relate to me and not ask "So what do you do all day?" [[That question is one of my biggest pet peeves, btw.]] However, recently, God has blessed me with some amazing interactions. No, they haven't exactly been in the same boat as me, but nevertheless, I got out of the house and was speaking with someone besides myself! [[That's a huge step for me!]]

Last week, I was invited out to my friend Abigail's house. I felt so blessed and excited because she is super cool and a great mama and I just wanted to see her in action. =] We had a great time because:
{1} I got out of the house
{2} There was adult conversation for both of us
{3} She is just a lot of fun to be around

I also got to go out to breakfast with my mentor, Suzi. Time with her is always so special for me because we can just be real with each other without fear of judgement on either side. I truly feel blessed by the talks we have and always feel encouraged after we part.

Josh had a business trip to Madison and I decided that I wanted to go with him. [[Again...the whole "getting out of the house" thing.]] Usually, I wouldn't care to go on a 24 hour trip, but there is someone special in Madison. My friend Beky has been living up there for the summer and I just couldn't miss the opportunity to get to see her! It was fantastic just to get to catch up with her, hear about her summer, and have some amazing and deep talks. I've missed having those with her because she has such a neat perspective on life.


Having all of these meet ups with three very different but equally amazing women has really taught me something. I may be a homemaker, but that does not mean that I need to be at home 24/7. It is important for me to get out of the house [[if only once a week]] and get together with a friend. Cultivating friendships is so important for community and for Josh's sanity. [[After a long day at work, the last thing he wants is a gabby wife...]]


Are you a homemaker or stay at home mama? Do you also struggle with getting out of the house? If so, I challenge you to make a goal of getting out of the house at least once a week to meet up with a friend for coffee, lunch, shopping, anything! Just get out of the house for conversation. You'll be amazed at the change you [[and others]] see in yourself. [[Josh told me that I'm "much happier when I have a full schedule!" Oh, that man...]]